Woman! Surrender your will, communicate your thoughts, fears, hopes and schemes- but hope not to get a feedback till the work is done; silently pray for his weal more than yours;
whether u knit your soul to his or not, knit with his fortunes which engenders greater trust;
and most of all scabbard his sword but drain him not to inaction- for he is thy hope and vehicle to yr fortune and peace.
Not for nothing that Abraham was called LORD by Sarah!